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Friendship: A Dying Art?



I'm 44 years old and only just now discovering that I don't know how to be a friend.

It's not that I don't have friends; I would have to say I'm blessed in that department. I have new friends and old, friends close and far away, friends I talk to weekly and friends with whom the spaces between our words are years long, friends my age, friends young enough to be my kids, friends old enough to be my parents, male friends, female friends, friends in person, friends (real friends, even, whether you believe it or not) online, different friends who know the different parts of me and even a few who know my most closely held secrets.
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How to Find God's Will for Your Life



If only it was that easy.  Do we honestly expect God to act like a cosmic vending machine, dispensing life-plans as long as we press the right buttons and say the right prayers?  Recently, however, I was going through some inner turmoil and stumbled upon an insight into his will that you might find intriguing.
 
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Spring Break Syndrome: An Escape from Ordinary



As the college spring break season winds down to a painful finale, let us pause to remember the glory days of our youth-beautiful Caribbean beaches, random hookups, binge drinking, morning hangovers, and crappy hotels.
 
This was the life. This justified a little credit card debt. Not too much, but a little. This was the mountaintop experience of spring semester, the epicenter of our social lives, the 7 days on which we spent 7 weeks' income-this was spring break.
 
For years we viewed these sacred March days as an escape from the ordinary. We spent the weeks leading up to our seven-day liberation studying for midterms, saving up last minute cash, and trying to lose our college beer bellies.
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Simple Compassion Book Review



I was lucky enough to be offered a review copy of Keri Wyatt Kent's new book Simple Compassion: Devotions to Make a Difference in Your Neighborhood and Your World. I've never been one for devotionals. I start them but never finish. I have a hard time stopping myself from reading on and on. I guess that defeats the purpose of a year-long devotional. The part I liked about reviewing this book was that I was able to read it straight through! (Otherwise, no one would be reading this for another year!)
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Lottie Moons or Ex-Pimps: We're All Missionaries



Most people in America know what a missionary is. Many may think of people speaking about Africa at their church, asking for money. For others, the kid who was home schooled in a jungle and have a hard time fitting back into society, may come to mind. I've had some several different stereotypes over the years, regarding this breed of Jesus-followers, and now, I suppose, I am one.
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Finding Christmas In the Jungle



"Feliz Navidad!" Jubilant voices welcomed us into there home as we made our way up the steep hill in the darkness,towards the twinkling lights, music and chatter. We were ushered in to yet another home in the village, hugs all around, plates of rice and chicken shoved in our hands. Everyone was laughing, and I found myself laughing along, partly because of the contagious nature of the Kuna people's joy, partly because I was overly exhausted, because it was 2 a.m. on Christmas.
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Religion Is a One Night Stand



In our search for love, we do crazy and reckless things. We search in bars and the internet and the church and in people just as broken as ourselves. We want this love so bad, but when we try to gain it outside of The One Being who is love, we are cheating ourselves.

I remember being a insecure and scared fifteen year old, giving away my virginity because I wanted to be "loved," because I thought I was the only one who hadn't, because I just didn't care about the consequences anymore.
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Thanksgiving: How Rich Are You?



This Thanksgiving morning finds me teary, overcome with the magnitude of God's grace and mercy, in that He has, for His own reasons, chosen to make me an incredibly rich person. They have to be His own reasons; I know my story well enough to know the massive gulf between what I have earned and what I have -- which is why I so often repeat that old Testament chart-topper that says, "O praise the Lord, for He is good, and His mercy endures forever." This morning, I celebrate the same things that many will: home, health, family and friends. But the things I have seen, heard, and learned this past couple of years. Well, they are what push my gratitude from a sigh and a smile to a whole other level.
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Resolutions from the Unemployment Line



This past Friday, I joined the ranks of the unemployed when the shelter where I worked did some downsizing.  I had never been laid off before; that meeting was short, to the point, and absent the drama one might imagine.  Driving home that afternoon, I texted my kids.  "On my way home. Unemployed. God is good."
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Soul Meets Body



Maybe I am crazy or schizophrenic, but lately I have been more aware of the fact that I am a physical and a spiritual being. It's like I have been able to separate the two, and see who I am really am.

How many people in the world are happy when they stand in front of a mirror? I wonder how many people work hard to make their bodies a certain shape, to buy certain clothes to hide them or show them off. I've been thinking about about how weird it is, I am this person trapped in skin.
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